Hi, I'm Nicki...
I'm a very smart, strong, successful woman whose biggest fear is that I'm not good enough. For a long time I fought that little voice in my head that said "you're not enough". It made me believe I was only lovable if I was smart, beautiful and successful, so I spent the majority of my life hustling for my worth.
That hustle brought me plenty of success in some areas of my life. It drove me to skip a grade in school and graduate early. It caused me to lead a very successful career in a male-dominant industry for nearly 25 years and it fueled endless hours of training in the gym to get my black belt.
But, it also caused me to have a chaotic, unfulfilling love life. That voice and the fear behind it caused me to settle for less than I deserved in relationships. It drove me to constantly seek attention from others and it prevented me from trusting my intuition in knowing which men were right for me.
Finally, I realized that the voice had actually created a giant hole inside me and I was constantly looking for someone else to fill it. All I wanted was for someone to validate me and tell me that I was finally "good enough". But, no matter who that person was or how much they tried to prove the voice wrong, it was never enough.
It took many years and a lot of pain to heal the relationship with myself and reclaim my worth. But, I finally feel complete. And in the process I found my forever love, which is sweeter than I ever imagined!
Now, my mission is to fast-track other women in getting the love they deserve and without all the heartache.
Education & Experience
In addition to my personal experience, I'm a professionally-trained coach and I've got experience in other healing modalities as well.
Certified Coach - Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
Certified Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner
Certified Reiki Practitioner - Master Level
Certified Access Bars Practitioner
25 years in Corporate Leadership positions
Bachelor of Science - Oklahoma State University
Multiple Leadership Development Certifications
First Degree Black Belt - Mixed Martial Arts